Surgery update: I went to the E.N.T. yesterday and I don't have to plan on surgery...yet! I have to do two medicines and come back for a check up in a month and see how things are. I wasn't "looking forward" to the prospect of surgery, but I know if I did have it I would feel 100% better but the doctor wants to use surgery as a last resort thing, which makes sense.
My long lost biffle from high school texted me today asking for my address to send me a wedding invite. It's so weird to think that she's preparing to walk down the aisle. I'm so proud of her though. She just graduated from college and already has a big girl job (in Kansas). It's kind of melted my heart to get the text from her because after our high school graduation, I helped her pack up to leave for college and that was really the last time I saw her (besides creeping on Facebook). We didn't talk as much anymore and by the time my life had shifted to Statesboro communication was almost nonexistent. I always hated it, but I knew that friends sometimes grow apart the older you get and I accepted it. I don't want to say I expected a wedding invitation but after everything we went through in high school, my feelings would have been extremely hurt if I hadn't of received one. Is that wrong? Hope not.
Thank all of you for your kind words and thoughts on the previous two posts. They mean a lot and I appreciate the support. Honest.
While I have been outrageously bored this week being at my parent's, and I am ready to go back to Statesboro this weekend... I have had the chance to regroup and decide where I want my life to go. Yes!
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Hope the new meds help you feel better! Glad you've gotten to spend time at home and you're feeling rejuvenated! :) PS your feelings about wedding invite totally normal, I'm glad you got one!
ReplyDeleteI feel like every girl at some point goes through that "Thanks for the friendship but don't come back" phase with a friend. It is hard but a crucial part of growing up. It was a lot harder when Bestie first moved out but I moved in with a new roomie (whome I did't know) and she ended up being a ray of sunshine and showed me what true friends were about. She was a bridesmaid in my wedding and we spend every weekend during the summer together.
ReplyDeleteI will admit I didn't want to go to Bestie's wedding but I cried the day of her wedding because I felt think it was an important day and I hadn't been included. So I understand you're feelings on being hurt if you hadn't been invited.
:)