Confidence is key.

Let's be honest, who's been called a bitch or stuck up because you walked in a room with an air of confidence? *Hand raising.* I have. Who's had guys not approach you at the bar or elsewhere because you seemed confident? *Hand raising.* I have. I've had multiple guy and girl friends tell me that they think the guys I appear interested in are intimidated by the confidence I have in myself. I think I turn some guys off because I'm such a flirt, just saying. Am I always as confident as I come across? No. There are sometimes where my outer appearance seems carefree and confident but the Michelle inside is cringing and spazzing out. I've just learned over the years that confidence is key. People can spot someone with little or zero confidence. I can promise you that. I'm a hardcore people watcher and I love sitting at the bar or somewhere and watching how people act and react to certain situations and I can always spot the ones who have little or zero confidence. Like I said, I'm not always confident but my actions always show that I am.

Just remember, confidence is like a adding spices to a recipe-- too little or too much is never good and it's usually hard to find the right amount.